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If you never learn the exact way to make a girl take interest in you and stay interested then she would always laugh at you behind your back, avoid & reject your calls for days and would even boast to a guy she likes how guys like you go crazy at her feet. As a matter of fact I am pretty sure that this might be happening in your life this very moment; some years back I used to be taken less seriously by girls. Now; read the next paragraph slowly – these exact same things used to happen in my own life years back; till I realized how to put a stop to it.
You have met this very special girl you really really like, as a matter of fact it is possible that you are currently seeing her this very moment. You believe she is totally different from other girls and just the type of girl you would wish to have in your life this very moment. You have told her how much you love her and have showered her with loads and loads of attention and have treated her like a queen. As in, the amount of attention you have given her would melt the heart of even anybody with a heart of stone. But still; she doesn’t return your affections…why the hell is all the attention you are giving her not working on her?
At a point it seems that maybe she thinks you are not really serious about how much you claim you love her or maybe she thinks you are not been sincere enough and so you intensify your efforts and try to show her how very sincere you are – every night you send her amazingly sweet romantic texts telling her how much you care, you call her frequently and in very sincere tone you tell her that you would always be there for her, you always ask after her well being more than any other guy does, you even buy her things even though you don’t really have much. But still, she still doesn’t return your affections. What do you get in return? Nothing.
Sometimes she doesn’t even pick your calls, at times she ignores it for two days straight (or more) and when she finally decides to pick, you ask her why she has been ignoring your calls and what she does is to give you a lame excuse that you both know is a big lie. That is even if she bothers to give you an excuse at all – sometimes she ignores the question or out-rightly tells you to your face to stop bugging her with stupid questions. Somehow you have this feeling that she is making fun of you with her friends behind your back; whenever you ask her to go out on a date with you she turns down your offer with a flimsy excuse and whenever she finally decides to accept the offer she shows up with a friend – to a date which is supposed to be between you two! Does that sound familiar?
As a matter of fact that stuff used to happen to me with almost every girl I wanted to get close to…every single girl. At a point I started wondering if I was cursed, why would the girls I really like never return my love and attention while the ones I don’t like will be the ones to give me green lights…it just all seemed like a big curse. When I stumbled across the solution to that very problem and reached a point where I could walk up to any girl, talk to her and have her almost begging to have my number in minutes – I was amazed at how simple and easy the solution was, infact I had heard a lot of people talk about it but when I started using it to get amazing results with girls I wondered why on earth I had never applied it all my life. It is fine if you want to depend on luck to get girls.
As a matter of fact, I used to be lucky one or two times back then and ended up getting an average girl who was “just there”, then these same girls somewhere midway start acting cold too like the others. I even caught one who was cheating on me. If luck is what you want then fine; play with luck. But if what you want is easily and effortlessly getting a favorable result every single time you go out and talk to any girl you are interested in then read on. It took me years of fumbling and being mistreated by girls to finally learn how to make them take me seriously. I have gone ahead to use this one strategy on girls and have had some of them kissing me the very same day we met.
So what is this solution? Simple – show disinterest. What do I mean? Now write this down if you can; the reason girls you like don’t take you seriously is because you have shown too much interest.
It is because they are sure you like them, therefore, the solution to the problem of not been taken seriously is never to show a girl you are interested in her that you are interested in her. Alright; let me prove to you that this is really the solution. Maybe this might have happened to you before; try to think back to that girl that have been showing signs that they like but you never took seriously. The more she showed you that she was interested in you the more it made you pull back, right?
Now; try to remember what happened when she stopped been interested in you. didn’t you feel like chasing her? That exact same reaction you got in your head when a girl who likes you stops showing interest in you also happens in girls. When a girl is really sure you like her she will never return the feelings. As a matter of fact it will kill every single trace of the feeling when it comes to you. Also let me prove more of this to you. try to remember that same girl that showed interest in you, maybe at a point when she started giving you lots and lots of greenlights you too started returning it.
At a point you even told her you liked her, then vam – she starts avoiding you and all the green lights she was once showing you stops in an instant. Do you now get it? Because you started showing interest in her she stopped showing interest in you and started playing hard to get. But when you played hard to get in your own small way it made her mad and made her want to come more closer to you. The key is to show DISINTEREST.
If she is sure you like her you will loose her…this has been proved and it has been tested and it always happens. But there is a particular way of showing disinterest. As a matter of fact, if you go about acting uninterested around a girl you like in the wrong way then you may chase her away or make her feel you are really uninterested or even make her to outrightly hate you. you definetly don’t want that and that is exactly why you need to show disinterest the right way.
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